It’s not so much about judging as it is about the lack of healthy choices and standards! in addition if you look at it using empathy from his girl friends point of view, it was shocking and many thought were obviously running thru her mind, like has my guy been doing this kind of activities on nights out with the guys and does he have a history of this type of activity! Further more, possessive, or not why would a dude do this with his girl? Maybe he wanted to break up with her, I doubt it, it’s a dumb move, and disrespectful to his girl----- obviously in hindsight! Leading with church? LOL-WOW!